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Votes. When you vote we set one cookie with a random id, so you only vote once. We store a hash of that id, your answers, and a hash of your IP address that changes every day, which we use only to stop vote flooding. We never store your IP address itself.

Mourner counts. To count visitors we set a cookie with a random id and store only a hash of it, with when you first and last visited. It is not linked to your votes or to anything you write.

Condolences. We store the name and message you submit, the amount, and the email address Stripe gives us with your payment, which we use only to deal with refunds. Your email address is never displayed. Messages may be checked by an automated moderation service (Groq) before you pay.

Payments. Card payments are handled by Stripe. We never see or store your card details.

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